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Relationships
3:56 pm
Fri February 14, 2014

Modern Love: Misconceptions Of Soul Mates

Daniel Jones' book, "Love Illuminated."

Marcie Sillman talks with Daniel Jones, editor of The New York Times' "Modern Love" column, about his new book, "Love Illuminated: Exploring Life's Most Mystifying Subject (With The Help Of 50,000 Strangers)," and what he's learned about love from other people's stories.

StoryCorps
9:12 am
Fri February 14, 2014

A Fiery Valentine's Day For Two Firefighters In Love

Sophy Medina and Thomas Olsen with their son, Luca. The couple spent their first Valentine's Day together fighting the same fire — before ending up in the hospital.
StoryCorps

Originally published on Fri February 14, 2014 8:00 am

New York City firefighters Sophy Medina and Thomas Olsen don't work together very often, but their first Valentine's Day as a couple was an exception. They worked the same fire that night — and then ended up at the same hospital with minor injuries.

"There really wasn't much romantic about the night it was," Tommy tells Sophy, now his fiancee, on a visit to StoryCorps. "I kept coming over. I sat in your bed and was talking to you."

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Hurts So Good
12:00 pm
Thu February 13, 2014

The Science And Music Of Heartbreak

Dr. Helen Fisher studies why after a break-up all we want to do is wallow in sad music.
Flickr Photo/Lis Ferla

There are a lot of songs about love, but perhaps there are even more songs about loss. That raises a serious scientific question: Why are so many songs written about heartbreak, and what happens to the brains of people who are experiencing a really bad break-up?

Biological anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher studies what happens in our brains when we are in love and when we are heart broken. She says that Tylenol is helpful, but staring at pictures of your ex and listening to a sad song when your brain is going through massive dopamine withdrawal is not.

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Relationships
1:12 pm
Mon February 10, 2014

Julie And John Gottman Dish A Little Advice From The Love Lab

Drs. John and Julie Gottman share their secrets to lasting love.
Flickr Photo/LollyKnit

Valentine’s Day may be a day filled with flowers, chocolates and a candle-lit dinner, but for relationship experts Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, the lovey-dovey holiday is about reconnecting and showing how you care about your partner.

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Thanksgiving Special
1:43 pm
Fri November 22, 2013

StoryCorps Love Stories With Dave Isay

Flickr Photo/las-initially

If there's one tradition that's never faded away in our history as people on this earth, it's storytelling. StoryCorps is a massive oral history project whose mission is to record, preserve and share the stories of Americans from all background and beliefs. It was founded in 2003 by radio documentary producer Dave Isay.

People tell their stories in mobile booths all around the country, and selected stories air nationally on NPR. All of the stories are preserved in the Library of Congress, with the hope that it will one day become a public, searchable database. Isay spoke at Seattle's Town Hall on February 7, 2012.

Relationships And Economics
11:16 am
Mon September 16, 2013

When Money And Love Collide

Flickr Photo/Jenifer Correa

Marcie Sillman speaks with Gail Wyatt, couples counselor and director of UC Los Angeles' Sexual Health Program.

Marcie Sillman speaks with Shelly Lundberg, UC Santa Barbara economics professor.

It's no surprise that money stress doesn't bode well for romance. For many couples, decisions like marriage, divorce or children hinge on the question: Can we afford it? Marcie Sillman talks with UC Santa Barbara economics professor Shelly Lundberg and couples counselor and director of UC Los Angeles' Sexual Health Program Gail Wyatt about how money impacts our love lives.

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Relationships
12:44 pm
Wed February 27, 2013

Missed Connections: A Second Chance At Love At First Sight

Where was your close encounter with love at first sight?
Flickr Photo/Paul Joseph

Have you ever gotten an I Saw You or a missed connection? What happened? Did you connect? Psychology Today went through the missed connections on Craigslist, state by state, to see the most common places to be seen but not asked out. Here in Washington, the bus is the number one place to almost find love. In most of the other states it was Wal-Mart where cupid was most likely to draw back his bow. Ross Reynolds surveys the listeners about their thoughts on second chances at love at first sight.

Love Songs
2:37 pm
Thu February 14, 2013

From Alt.Latino, With Love: A Valentine's Day Extravaganza

Chilean rapper Ana Tijoux.
Courtesy of the artist

Originally published on Mon June 17, 2013 8:03 am

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Your Love Story
12:40 pm
Thu February 14, 2013

How Did You Meet Your Valentine?

These two are inseparable.
Flickr Photo/Pranav Prakash

How did you meet the person you are spending Valentine’s Day with? Did you meet in a grocery store? Were you both at the same movie alone? Maybe it was something more modern like Match.com? To commemorate Valentine's Day, Ross Reynolds talks with listeners about how they met.

Love & Hurt
10:00 am
Thu February 14, 2013

Weekday's Annual Valentine's Day Special

The heart is a fragile thing.
Credit Flickr Photo/Sean McGrath



Yes, it's Valentine’s Day. Does that make you flush with romance? Cold with regret? Or is it just like any other day, but with slightly more chocolate? Sometimes it takes another person to bring out a piece of ourselves we didn't realize we had before. Tell us about the new you brought about by someone else. Or, tell us the exact moment you knew a relationship was over and done. Share your stories with us at 206.543.5869 or weekday@kuow.org.

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Sociology
9:00 am
Mon February 11, 2013

The Secret To Being A Happy Couple

What is the secret to being happy in your relationship?
Credit Flickr photo/Rodrigo Vargas

What is “normal” in a romantic relationship? More importantly, what’s “normal” for couples who say they're really happy? UW Sociologist Dr. Pepper Schwartz teamed up with Harvard sociologist James White and wellness entrepreneur Chrisanna Northrup to answer that question. Together they conducted and analyzed the largest human relationship study ever done. We’ll talk with Dr. Schwartz about the “perfect couple.”

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